Update: I now have my own place and my own vehicle (not sure why that's important but...) near CT. I am however looking 4 mr compatible with me. Hang on I got a few ground rules..1) any guy I hook up with better be prepared to take it like a man. And i wont lie to you just hit me up and find out if you wanna find out more. But the birth control rule applies even if we are using condoms.