Guess it depends on the type of personality out of work it's hard get into office work with out tons of experience. To be honest my ideal person for what I'm seeking is whatever kind of man as long as he isn't abusive. So i just would like to meet someone sho is comfortable with this and not affraid to let me pleasure them. On the reg or long term with someone that complements me and can keep up! I have 3 that are grown and in collage.