Or a self centered ass. Want to fulfill a fantasy for both my husband and i have sex also like to play and relax as much as the next chick that takes me (us). Hot librarian type you know conservative but wild i'm a young 40 with a lot going for me except for the gym i'm pretty much a home body. Looking for someone the will mostly engage with me but on occasion with my husband as we have total trust. Getting that close and intimate with someone i don't see how anyone can have it with nsa yknow. Absolutely no offense meant to all others but hey we all have our preferences.